The ears are one of the most erogenous areas of the body that have a reflex response in other parts of the body, including the nipples and genitals. That is why it is one of the most powerful erogenous zones that we can learn to massage and kiss. The ears will not only be part of your foreplay but they can lead you to orgasm.
Erogenous zones are areas of the skin where there are many nerve endings. Touching these areas can cause arousal because they are very sensitive to touch. When the sense of touch is experienced, it does not only refer to caresses, it can also be experienced by grabbing, licking or even giving small bites. In general, any area of the skin can be erogenous, but each person usually has different or more prominent areas than others, which is why communication with the other person is always essential.
To stimulate an erogenous zone, you always have to start with soft and sensual movements and then increase the pressure or combine them with bites and licks. In the case of erotic ear massage, you can start by getting close to his ear and then whisper some affectionate or exciting comment to the other person. In this way, you will begin to feel anticipation for what you are going to experience and that will make you feel much more desire. Remember that arousal is not only a response to a physical act, it is also psychological.
The surprising thing is that with this we manage to increase the desire that the other person feels without us having started playing yet. In addition, stimulating the ears eroticizes the situation in a totally new way where the other person must let go, which will make this moment much more intimate.
The first contact should be on the earlobes, they are highly sensitive to the touch of the tongue, caresses, soft bites or even just breathing. The great secret is to combine two techniques, the bite on the earlobes and soft breathing, the result is immediate and causes great excitement for this intimate moment.
Then exhale a soft, warm breath in and around the ear along with some light nipping and alternate kisses on the neck and cheeks. Many people have these areas so sensitive that the slightest touch makes them tremble with excitement.
Once you've started on the lobes, massage them in circles for about 20 seconds. And little by little it rises from the base of the ear to the tip.
One of the tricks that will make this massage much more exciting is the aphrodisiac oil. Surprise the other person by providing extra sensations with the hot/cold effect you get by applying a little aphrodisiac oil and blowing on it. If you want to go one step further, the best thing is that the oil is edible, so you can play with your tongue and make it feel like never before. In addition, the oil is always recommended in any erotic massage because it facilitates the fluidity of the massage movement and provides very pleasant sensations.
Once you have applied the oil, gently insert your thumb into the ear and gently press down. Stroke this entire area from bottom to top in circles. This area is connected to the vagus nerve, this is a very important nerve that passes through the skull, the nipples and the genitals.
In addition, the vagus nerve is involved in orgasm, so we assure you that the other person will like this massage much more than he could have imagined.
The areas around the ears are also important, the neck is one of the most important for two reasons. Stimulating a nearby area allows us to stop focusing on the erotic area of the ears, this creates expectation to know when it will be stimulated again. In addition, the neck is also another of the most important erogenous zones and is much better known.
Gently stroke the skin from their neck to their collarbones long enough for the other person to enjoy this new area while also wanting you to return to their ears. When you think it has reached this point, go back to the ears and make circles around them, then go back to the neck and repeat successively. This will expand the area stimulated and increase pleasure in the other person by stimulating different areas at the same time.
The climax of the massage comes when you change the caresses for kisses, entertain yourself in the same journey from the clavicles, through the neck to the earlobe and use your hands to caress other parts of the body. Alternate kisses with small movements of the tip of the tongue, especially inside the ear.
This will be the best and last moment of the erotic ear massage, when the other person will have reached their highest state of excitement.
Erotic massages have multiple benefits. Among them, self-knowledge, allows you to discover what excites you, which depends a lot on each person. It helps make it easier for you to communicate with your sexual partner during the massage and even afterwards. They are also a very effective foreplay before sex and bring about more intimacy in the couple. Discover more about erotic massages and all the pleasure that comes with it in our massage center in Barcelona Shiva Massage.