The Lingam massage is based on Hindu tantra techniques for relaxation and stimulation of the erogenous zones. In tantra slang, the Lingam refers to the sacred male areas, this massage is given to the totally naked body, provides relaxation, restores mental and emotional balance and the purpose is to wrap the man in a sacred sensation of sexual pleasure.
While an erotic massage has as its objective the orgasm that releases all the sexual energy accumulated during the arousal process, the lingam massage uses the energy that exists innately in our body to enter deep states of consciousness and meditation, using pleasure and joy as an opening key to the deepest parts of our consciousness.
This tantric massage consists of three stages. The first stage of relaxation in which stress and muscle tension are eliminated. A second stage in which the person receiving the massage notices how the sensitivity of touch begins to awaken and is immersed in an atmosphere of sensuality and eroticism. Finally, in the third stage, all the sexual energy that has been generated in the previous stage is taken and distributed throughout the body.
Ejaculation or intercourse are not sought as the end of the treatment, therefore the man does not have to be subjected to any type of pressure or expectation, he just has to relax and let himself go.
Lingam massage promotes sexual continence, which in the case of men means having orgasms without ejaculation. This ensures that men can enjoy sex for much longer by having erections of higher quality and duration and as a result, men can also achieve several orgasms in a sexual relationship.
The man must lie on his back to receive the Tantric Lingam massage, the masseuses will place a pillow under his head so that he is comfortable and another under his hips, this is the correct posture for the massage. Your knees should be slightly bent and your legs apart so that your penis and testicles are fully accessible to the masseuse.
Before starting, both the masseuse and the recipient of the massage must take a deep breath, a relaxing breath that will prepare you for the first stage of the massage and to get in touch with your energetic part. It is important that during the massage, breathing is deep and slow at all times. This is what makes it possible to achieve constant relaxation and to reach a continuous orgasm over time without ejaculation.
The first stage will serve to relax the whole body, leave the mind blank, and prepare for the next phase while connecting with your inner energy. The legs, abdomen, thighs and chest are massaged in a delicate and sensual way, leading the man to a state of deep relaxation through caresses and massage passes.
Moving to the second stage, the masseuse will begin to gently arouse the recipient of the massage by caressing his crotch with the palm of her hand from the knees to the pubis, exerting slight pressure with the thumb and closing the movement in the groin.
That's when you can start massaging much more erogenous areas such as the testicles and the perineum, the area between the base of the penis and the anus. The goal is to stimulate circulation and awaken the senses to sensuality.
The most important thing is the energy that is generated in the root chakra muladhara, which can lead man to reach samadhi, a state of consciousness and fulfillment if it is achieved channel correctly and enhance it. This will depend a lot on how easy it is for the man to let himself go and if he has any previous experience in the practice of tantra.
The pleasure that the man will feel is prolonged in what is called “riding the wave”. The wave describes the metaphorical movement of the level of arousal. You can stay in this wave until you decide if you want to end ejaculation or not. In most massages they can end ejaculation after a very long stimulation, however, for experts in tantra they don't even feel the need to ejaculate, they just have to stay on the wave and feel completely energized.
In the Lingam massage, the attitude of the masseuse is loving, she transmits her positive energy and seeks to honor her patient. Its goal is to connect with your deepest state of consciousness so that you can find a meditative moment in which to get away from negative thoughts and immerse yourself in an absolute state of relaxation.
This is a massage that is maintained at the climax, our erotic masseuses take the area of the male sexual organ to the peak of sexual arousal but before you reach climax, they spread this sexual energy towards the chest and down towards the thighs, sending incredible waves of pleasure throughout the body.
This manipulation of energy causes the arousal to decrease and your body to become more and more relaxed, and then to re-stimulate you towards a new climax. Then the process is repeated, that sexual energy is distributed again throughout the body and thus you will approach your climax repeatedly managing to float in an almost orgasmic state.
The final orgasm linked to ejaculation is not the objective of the Lingam massage, it is about staying in the erotic vibration and immersing yourself in a state of global pleasure for a long time.
Contact our Shiva Massage erotic massage center to answer any questions about this massage and to book an appointment and discover the superior pleasure that our masseuses will bring you through the Lingam massage.